Myrthe Glasbergen, MSc. is a trauma-informed psychologist, social critic, and the founder of Beyond Psychology: a platform for deep healing, unlearning, and systemic change. Known for her grounded presence and bold voice, Myrthe guides people back to their authenticity by bridging emotional healing with critical insights on the systems that shape us. Her work speaks to those ready to break cycles, reclaim power, and create something new.
Most women who find this article are not looking for a diagnosis. They are looking for a word. They have spent years being the one who smooths things over, who agrees even when they don't, who reads the room before they read their own feelings. They are exhausted in a...
There is a specific kind of fear that does not announce itself loudly. It appears in the moment before you say something, in the fraction of a second between having a thought and deciding not to speak it. A need that stays unspoken. An opinion that gets swallowed. A...
The relationship with your mother is the first place where your nervous system learns what it means to be in relationship at all. Long before you can think, speak, or understand your environment, your body is already forming conclusions about safety, presence, and...
You say yes when every part of you means no. You soften your tone so the other person does not feel uncomfortable. You spend hours after a conversation replaying what you said, wondering if it landed wrong, if you upset someone, if you should send a follow-up message...
You don’t think about him that much. Or maybe you do, but not in the way that seems significant. He’s just your father. He did his best. He provided. He was there, mostly. And still, the father wound leaves its traces everywhere. You work harder than everyone around...
Most women already know. They know he is not the right one. They know this is not the life they actually want. Somewhere beneath the performance of contentment, they know they have accepted second best. And they stay anyway. Not because they are foolish, and not...
If you have ever said yes when every part of you wanted to say no — if you have smiled through something that hurt, made yourself smaller to keep the peace, or felt a bolt of panic at the thought of disappointing someone — you have experienced fawning. Fawning is not...
To become an independent woman, liberated from the systems, relationships, and conditioning that kept her small, you have to be willing to say no to those systems. And if you have ever wondered why independence feels so scary, even when you know it would be good for...
From a very young age, women are conditioned to orient themselves around male approval: the male gaze. Long before conscious choice is possible, girls learn that safety, belonging, and worth are tied to being liked, desired, and accepted by men. This conditioning does...
Decentering men means taking yourself back. It is the end of the unconscious arrangement in which male approval, male desire, and male-defined systems get to be the organizing center of your life. It is not a man-hating concept. It is not about cutting men out,...